How should I put this? I always see people copying forward message on their blog. I kinda think it's stupid actually. In fact, I'm doing this today. LOL. Well I'll be better I guess cause i'm gona translate this to you. How generous I am. *Angel charm*
当他不爱你时，无论过去他是否爱过后来却忘了，又或者是否是从未爱过。当你无法成为他心里的那个人时，他的心便不会记得你。虽然他知道你深爱他，但他寧可选择装作是不知道。
When he has no feeling on you, no matter he love you before or not, when you're not the person in his heart, he wouldn't remember you. Eventhough he knows that you love him, but he rather pretend not knowing about it. (What a coward action!)
当他不爱你时，请不要在你不开心，或者是遇到麻烦而彷徨的时候去打搅他。他那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。也许他会在接到你的电话的时候，淡淡地安慰你几句，却也仅此而已。也许你会再想要一点什么，于是说：“我们见面吧。”而他肯定心有烦躁了。当他不爱你的时候，你的爱，你的人，就会显得廉价许多。你佔了下风，这是人的本性。他会说：“好，不过我现在有点事情。晚点的时候你再给我电话吧。或者我给你电话也可以。”而你这时千万不要当真，他只是找了个不是很高明的理由来搪塞你。请，不要真的去等，不要骗自己。
Whe he has no feeling to you, please do not look for him when you're in trouble or feeling miserable, because he is not where the place you should go for. Even if you give him a call, he will just simply comfort you a bit and thats it. Maybe you would wana meet up, but he will feel annoyed. When he is totally not into you, your love and your person become so shameful, and you're on the downside, this is human behaviour. We might say:" Why not? But I'm on to something. Can you give me a call or I'll call you later?" Please don''t believe in what he said because he just found a brilliant excuse to turn you off. Please NEVER wait for his call. (Again Man is COWARD! no offence here ya.^^)
当他不爱你时，请不要与他讲你的琐事，也许此刻，你不过是希望让彼此更熟悉一些。只是，他却无暇更是没有兴趣去瞭解你。他也很快会忘记的，就如他忘记你的生日，你的地址，你的电话一样。没有爱，于是你注定挤不进他的生命。即使，你要的哪怕只是一个很小很小的角落。
When he has no feeling to you, please do not tell him about your life trivia. Maybe at this moment your only hope is to make each other more closer, but, he would never have interest to know about it. Moreover, he will forget things about you, your birthday, your house address, even your phone number. Without love, you could hardly be in their life either, even you only wish for a tiny place in his heart, (How cruel man can be, don't think girls will do that. We will still remember the things. Memory is still memory.)
当他不爱你时，请不要在他的面前流眼泪，不要在生病的时候告诉他。他无法给予你照顾和关心。至多是同情一下，而，请骄傲的你，不要放弃本来属于你的骄傲。虽然太多的人，在爱的面前丟失了太多。连站起来的勇气都没有。
When he has no feeling to you, NEVER EVER cry in front of him, don't tell him that you're sick. He won't care about it, only sympathy. You, who charm, please do not let away your pride! Some people just let go so many things for love and hurt themselve so badly. Even loses the courage to move on. (How pathetic one lady can be. )
I read about this when I was doing some research long time ago. But this is kinda true I think. Not that I have been through this thou but I can feel the pain in it. Real pain.
"Man can be caring but cruel at the same time."
PS: Please read both the mandarin (if you could) and english as well. I copied the mandarin one and I translated it into english. MY EFFORT!
